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Aboute sex [Adults only!!]
25. April 2007 - 23:25
Get load to this:
Is it unfaithfull to bang another girl just for sex? - I mean another girl you just meet on a pub, disco you know.. little weekend-entertainment when your wife/girlfriend is away. She is a nobody, as much as you are a nobody to her. 
All beings have needs and urges. And sex is one of the biggest urges beeings(Mainly Males) still dont prevail over. Not all can controll em, especially not when affected by some substans like alcohol. :roll:
So again. How is it unfaithful? Its never meant to be on purpose 
, the day after, the bitch is probably gone and you sit in the bed regretfully bang your head on your knees begging she will forgive bcos you being such a stupid ass. Still it wasnt you. It was the alcohol. In combination with the reptile brain who only respond instinctly of ours 
And aboute the act itself. Pure and naked its a part of the reproduction process, and then, depending on if its your girlfriend or wife, whateva you call it when fucking, there is still room for feelings and emotions. And its that feeling and emotion which in my opinion IS what getting stripped of if you apply it to another woman then your own. And its THAT i call unfaithfullness. 
When i bang an alien girl from the pub i never ever involve feeling or emotions to the sex Noway!! I am truthfully faithfull despite that, u see no harm done. Bcos it was not personal. it was just a little bit of fun. The same kind of fun Common singles do to pleasure themselves.(late nights) so i dont get it why girls getting so pissed of aboute that.. i really dont get it..
Luckily there is some women who understand. *Thumpup for them*
FYI dont drink and drive 
25. April 2007 - 23:41
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Aboute sex [Adults only!!]
There is so much stuff wrong in the above post i don't even know where to begin. I'll just say, i like the way you treat those "random, alien girls" like items. GG, +1 score for morality. It's not the intention, but the act itself, that counts.
25. April 2007 - 23:46
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wrote:There is so much stuff wrong in the above post i don't even know where to begin. I'll just say, i like the way you treat those "random, alien girls" like items. GG, +1 score for morality. It's not the intention, but the act itself, that counts.
Couldn't agree more. That's a pretty shitty outlook on relationships, Psy. And unfortunately many men and women share it with you. Hope you guys are having fun with that, I'm really trying to make this marriage thing work and it's a whole lot easier when I'm not, erm, banging other chicks all the time.
25. April 2007 - 23:47
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Who is this girl that understands? If she does, it won't be for long. Stay single Psy, if the above is really you trying to clear your conscience. If not, you will probably be single with an outlook like that, imo. 
26. April 2007 - 0:03
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Yeah Keres is quite probably right but mind you, open and free relationships can work aswell, I mean take her (ur gf) to a SWING club that way you both get action and if you can't stand her having fun with someone else, then I guess you'd better either stick with your gilfriend only or go solo.
And any way, I know from experience that no matter the amount of drugs you've done, you're still responsible for your action (try telling the cops you killed that bloke because you were pissed and see if you get away with it ).
Any way if when you drink you end up in bed with some alien 
, then my best advice is maybe take it easy on the drinking.
And @ Necro, I get reminded daily by my girlfriend the size of her left ring finger but I'm a bit young maybe still but seeing you and spektra talk about your relationship the way you do (and other things ofc, I ain't gon get married because of you ) is making me think seriously about engagement... But no way in hell the kids are coming this soon oO Don't want a mini me walking around for quite some years yet
26. April 2007 - 0:05
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If you are "banging a girl just for sex" as you stated above, Psy, then it would seem that you (or the person doing the banging in the scenerio) are objectifying the woman. That is, you would be treating the woman as a sex-object. Though, I don't think that is what you are trying to argue. I think you are arguing that it should be ok to sleep around if you are in a relationship, so long as the girl doesn't mind. (Alcohol or no alcohol--emotions are still involved, no matter how cloudy they may be at the time. We are not robots. Whenever you pose a question or questions like the ones you just did, albeit a moral delemma, I would suggest turning the question to yourself. Ask yourself, "would I be happy if the girl slept with other guys." This may help you to empathize and figure out what may be wrong or not wrong with a given situation. Also, not preaching here, though it may of felt like it. Just wanted to state my opinion. So, there you go.
26. April 2007 - 0:07
#7
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@psy
Sorry man, but i know a whole lot of people who think exactly like you, and they're all assholes. There are two universal truths here
1) This kind of people end up being lonely, or attached to a woman who's even more slutty then them.
2) They all regret it sooner or later.
K, i'm gonna stop right here, before i go into preach mode :roll:
Ultimately, you do what you think is right. But, seeing how you seek acceptance on an internet forum, to justify what you're doing with other people's opinions, is saying that you're not really strong there.
26. April 2007 - 0:09
#8
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Boy are you missing a lot on life.
random sex is sooo stupid when compared to TEH REAL THING (sex with someone you love) that its barely better than beating off the stick (aka jerking off).
soulmate sex FTW (Hi Ina)
26. April 2007 - 0:40
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1) This kind of people end up being lonely, or attached to a woman who's even more slutty then them.2) They all regret it sooner or later.
Well said. I'll consider it.
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Ultimately, you do what you think is right. But, seeing how you seek acceptance on an internet forum, to justify what you're doing with other people's opinions, is saying that you're not really strong there.
Its not what i had in mind at the first place. But ty for enlighting XD
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I think you are arguing that it should be ok to sleep around if you are in a relationship, so long as the girl doesn't mind. (Alcohol or no alcohol--emotions are still involved, no matter how cloudy they may be at the time. We are not robots. Whenever you pose a question or questions like the ones you just did, albeit a moral delemma, I would suggest turning the question to yourself. Ask yourself, "would I be happy if the girl slept with other guys." This may help you to empathize and figure out what may be wrong or not wrong with a given situation. Also, not preaching here, though it may of felt like it. Just wanted to state my opinion. So, there you go.
Yes you hit it right on, thats the arguments i try to state.
Butbut.. i asked myself the put other ppl into my mind or whatever.. you know what i mean.. my conclusion allthough was what if she thinks like me. then i wouldnt care, bcos i think the same way as her and understand why cause the act. And then i cannot get angry. As long as i dont change my mind and think its wrong..
Butbutbut..i mean C'mon!! ??
Some ppl think its more unfaithfull having sex with their wife, while fantasize on someone else during act. And not to be mean... but you aint get any younger why not enjoy whilst you still can? ... i mean DUH!!
26. April 2007 - 0:43
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Aboute sex [Adults only!!]
lolmost! ive said this numerous times and ima say it again. boy are these forums entertaining. .
psy mate. it isnt like ur gonna change anything u do cos someone else tells u to (if u are then ur even more of an idiot than i thought u were). it isnt a brain wracker of a question. pfft try a little thought on ur own.
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No i dont treat them like items. Huh?? But i mean-- comon.. how much do you really care when you are drunk .. i mean.. c'moon XD
But its good you stay decent
Meh. im still learning
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You know when its psyen (: