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great offtopic drama and non respect posts xd GG e+

typical e+ haha, thanks all

This is not what E+ was meant to be like! so such actions most likely to deserve a name of Crap+ *hit+ or alike..

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FAILED.
Just started a day with an arguee/fight with my wife. :(I know N1 laki, nice job, you rock and etc. etc. comments won't help me.Any idea what can do with it - pleaseeee?

go to a flowers shop and buy good a nice looking nature ones.... go home , falling down and say sorry! would help!

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you need to say : it was my fault, iam so sorry, " i love you so much ", i have a present for you : some nice looking flowers! But you are the most beautiful flower for me! Then try to find a harmony time together in the day and evening!

Whatever , if this was her fault or yours, Experience of Family Skillz !

ASPHYX given solutions are fine, but not best way to go.. not to let them down ASPHYX! nor I am in the mood to talk about this subject or about anything.. but I usually feel urged to share knowledge..

So those solutions of ASPHYX are like to treat your lady like if she was a brainless doll.. to make her feel good with few nice words and behaviors.. but in term, it secretly gets you out of the way of real true solution which you should go for..

Instead of treating your lady like if she was a brainless doll which is mainly for to let life pass on.. treat her like what she truly is..!! a life companion! your other half! the soul mate of your own soul! and always set your mind to what is causing the argues and problems between you, and better to never skip them with nice words, or flowers or some artful kind behaviors.. because that means you are only ignoring solving them..

It is also something to turn the attention laki, that you and her are married but yet you seem to not know how to make her be better once she is upset?! it is always good to consult with opinions as they could help, but never base on them.. specially once you are dealing with your own woman! it is your own woman we are talking about here! (the flower of your life) the same way how a flower is a flower of the nature!

On topic: once one said "who gave birth to me was a woman, and who raised me was a woman, and who will be the flower of my life and my life companian is a woman! so how not to be proud and rejoice knowing that we have them in our life? .. !!

I should also turn the attention to this one, the soul is the only thing that leaves life and stays alive at the after life.. which makes the wife be the most, absolute most valuable treasure!

My personal opinion is that women deserve the cherish, gentleness, compassion and the well treated attention not only at the day specific for women, instead, at every day of our lives!

Cheeeers Bro!!!! I never accepted drinking with you, but for such topic I will certainly do..

Hold your horses and don't turn your hopes up yet!! I didn't say jack daniels!! I was thinking about coffee and tea

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Nice that you shared your opinion. First time I have read it I felt like a crap. Someone could think that I beat my wife at least three times a day for any reason like soup was too salt or she brought me from fridge too warm beer and etc. or that I spend all my salary for an alcohol and she and ours son starved f.ex.

I know my wife very well (over 10 years and married 5) so I know plenty ways how to bring her happy. This time I just wanted do that by an original one to stop our SILLY an argue. So I called to her to check my request for a help here and she laughs of that so much and immediately stopped mad at me. That's all.

To sum your post by my own only opinion ofc - nothing new I discovered about woman and ways how they should be treat. Many of points you have written here I agree in 100%. I don't know you and I can't judge you by one topic here (my friend terror said once that I made one about him to fast by over read his 400 posts), but if you never ever got fight/argue with your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/parents/bro or sis/best friend (I mean someone with the closer one) you get my Big Respect.

I suppose that Asp had something else in his mind by offering help here as well.

Again I want to apologise dear ladies for a mess just started here by my post.

Like my friend Alex writes on end of message:

Many thx

laki

BTW. Rusty sajian nice call - this time wasn't necessary

@ laki, I don't know you and can't judge you either! but from your response, it was kind of like if you thought I was bringing/ or trying to bring a bad image about you.. but NO!! and regardless of how much you may know, a reminder usually to be useful and helpful in some cases for anyone and everyone!

In fact, the fact you were calling for help here regarding making things better between you and your wife speaks about how much you care about her! and that shows how a good person with your wife you are!

Please note that I spoke first about the bad mood I was in and not having any for writing, that makes it too bad for me to write anything, that was to show that I would not write unless found what I had to bring as important..

I also understand exactly what ASPHYX was trying to say (was trying to help!!) he was speaking about a certain situation.. while what I was speaking about could be general for a one whole life of a man and his wife! also said that to make your ties with your own wife only stronger!!

Besides: it usually to be merrier with families the occasions after arguments!

Please also pay attention to that I said most of what I said for the generality of the main topic, and to tell those which have wives and families how grace that is! because many others out there don't/didn't find yet/finding difficulties get married/ or for some reasons of their own life just can't settle so they could have their own family..

@ASPHYX, xD thanks for the respond! (appreciated!) xD

I wish you Laki, ASPHYX and all married people happy moments with your families and always to be happy, and for those which are not yet in such grace, to find your own life companions which to make your lives complete soon and be as happy

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@PRECISION

It seems that I something misunderstood and did a mistake. My bad. Not first and not last time here I guess . I Still learning to express my feelings in clear way and how to reads others users posts correctly 2.

No hurt feelings

Thx a lot for another elaboration you have written here and cya around hehehe
laki

I thought it must be a misunderstanding xD

No worries! and you are welcome!

All the best

PRECISION "the GMZ"

Can we hope to see you lobby for women's rights in Jordan? I hope so, since you seem to put such a premium on this day. They need all the backers they can get.